tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-228559112024-03-13T14:10:39.505-07:00The Kristin ChroniclesOccasional comments, photos, etc. from the Boston branch of the Wilson familyKristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.comBlogger71125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-59385939157932872062011-04-23T11:07:00.000-07:002011-04-23T11:07:10.255-07:00Easter FailTomorrow is Easter. You know, where your kids wake up in the morning and find special fancy baskets filled with colored plastic grass, jelly beans, and other tooth-rotting substances. Maybe a toy or a dyed egg as well.<br />
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Except in our house. I might manage to scrape together an Easter bowl for the kids to munch from, but I just don't see the whole basket thing working out this year. Perhaps I should explain that I have never been particularly attached to this holiday. I've always done the baskets for the boys, mostly because my parents did them for us. My dad would hide our dyed eggs all over the house and we'd spend the morning searching for them. But I've never been that organized or ambitious and feel accomplished when I'm able to cobble together the baskets before they come downstairs on Easter morning.<br />
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Morgan's idea is that we take them to the Lego store and let each of them pick out a gift. I'm good with that, as goodness knows they already have more than enough candy in their lives. But then they have to learn the Truth. Not sure I'm ready for that.<br />
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What kind of a parent am I that I let things get too busy to do a holiday for my kids? Clearly a busy one, between work and trying to get a specific job I want and cooking and cleaning (such as it is), etc. Hopefully this won't be one of those things that comes out when they're grown. I can hear it now: "Man, do you remember that year Mom didn't even bother to do Easter baskets for us? That was so lame." Sigh.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-15026432691781934372011-02-07T12:23:00.000-08:002011-02-07T12:23:59.295-08:00TerribleIt's the terrible twos. As difficult as the twins were at that age, I'm pretty sure Cannon is worse. Maybe I'm just too old to deal with it this time around. Or perhaps it's due to his communication skills being greater than one would expect at this age (and therefore tricking me into believing he should be acting older).<br />
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Whatever.<br />
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He's making me crazy. Here are some examples of what he does on a nearly daily basis:<br />
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"Mommy, can I have some toast? But DON'T PUT IT IN THE TOASTER!!!"<br />
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"I want some hot milk. But DON'T WARM IT UP!!!"<br />
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"I don't want those pants." "I want a different shirt."<br />
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I know, I know. One day I'll look back and wish he hadn't grown up. But there is just no reasoning with this kid. Sometimes we'll be cruising along, having a great day, he's all cheerful and happy, then for no apparent reason, something will set him off and it can take the better part of an hour to calm him down.<br />
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Oh, and he will not nap for me. He goes off to rest cheerfully when our nanny is in charge, but for me? Forget it. Let me just say this makes for a very cranky kid and mother.<br />
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Then again, he is pretty darned cute. The other night while snuggling at bedtime, he gently put his finger on one of the dark circles that have become a permanent fixture under my eyes and asked, "Mommy, are you okay? What happened to your eye?"<br />
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That would be a result of you disturbing my sleep several times each night, kiddo. I know he'll eventually stop this behavior, but I'm afraid by that time I'll be stuck with the bags.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-8141378699207737522011-01-05T12:32:00.000-08:002011-01-05T12:32:43.271-08:00LettersThe other day we were walking from a parking garage to a museum with the grandparents. It was a few days after a decent snow storm here in Boston, but it was actually a fairly mild day - maybe around 50 degrees - so we'd all left our coats in the car for the short walk.<br />
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Cannon and I had fallen behind, due mostly to his desire to pet a dog being walked nearby. After he was done with that, we continued on our way to meet the rest of our group. We passed a manhole cover with the word "DRAIN" across it. Cannon stopped, looked at it very seriously, then said, "Look, Mommy. There are some letters on it. Those letters say, 'It's cold outside'". It was very cute.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-24466498256433004142010-10-05T06:14:00.000-07:002010-10-05T06:14:26.127-07:00SexThis morning Kemper asked me what "sex" means. I explained that it means a couple of things. The first is that whenever you have to fill out a form for school, camp, etc., it asks you what your sex is and that they want to know if you're a boy or a girl.<br />
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Then I said that it also is something that two people do together when they really love each other. He thought about this and replied, "So when people love each other, they say 'sex' to each other?" Um, not quite. But that was the end of the discussion so perhaps he got what he needed for now.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-43266420578051037482010-08-28T17:46:00.000-07:002010-08-28T17:46:11.313-07:00Summer Lovin'We just returned from a week of camping in Maine. This was our second year at <a href="http://www.papoosepondresort.com/">Papoose Pond</a>, though this year there were nine families in our group. Some from church, some from the boys' school, and a couple of others from Waltham. It was a great week. The kids were able to run around with all of their buddies, and there were enough adults to keep an eye on them pretty much all the time.<br />
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One of the boys' friends has two younger sisters, ages 5 and 3 1/2. A day or so into the trip, Kemper and Ava, the 5 year old, really seemed to hit it off. That evening while he was getting ready for bed, Kemper found an inchworm, which Morgan suggested he release outside. When Kemper seemed sad at the prospect of letting it go, Morgan asked if there was a problem. Kemper replied, "Well, I really wanted to show it to my girlfriend before I let it go." Needless to say, we were both completely surprised by this. But they spent a good amount of time together, even holding hands when the group went on a hike. It was incredibly sweet. Though I have to say I never thought this sort of thing could start this young.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-54002539277060821322010-06-17T05:38:00.000-07:002010-06-17T05:38:03.318-07:00QuietLast night Rowan and Kemper attended an overnight out at school. This is the first time they've slept away from home without mommy and daddy. They have been talking about the sleepover for weeks, and could barely contain their excitement yesterday while they waited for carpool. They were a bit confused about how much stuff they needed to bring; somehow they got it in their minds that they'd be staying at school for three days. Rowan packed his backpack the night before. When I checked it the next morning, I found he'd packed three pair of pants, one pair of clean underwear, and a pair of socks. For a single night. No shirt, no pajamas. I helped him choose a more appropriate set of clothes, and sent them off.<br />
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Morgan and I dropped Cannon off with a friend, and went to test out a few canoes. We're thinking of buying one, and this seemed like a good opportunity to put them in the water. We then went to dinner, and collected Cannon. It was a very pleasant evening.<br />
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This morning it is so quiet in the house. No fights over Bionicle parts or who sits where on the sofa. No nagging from me about getting ready for school. No one has stolen anything from the baby. All in all, it's very peaceful. And while I miss the boys, I have to confess I'm glad to know they're ready for sleepovers. They should do them more often.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-78582179598674833422010-06-11T12:33:00.000-07:002010-06-11T12:33:28.317-07:00MusicCannon doesn't have the privilege of listening to many "children's" songs. With Rowan and Kemper, I indulged them a fair bit, mostly with things that I found minimally offensive or outright enjoyed. Dan Zanes, Laurie Berkner, Jazz for Kids, Tom Chapin, and a few collections of folk songs for kids. They of course also had Raffi, which to me was barely tolerable, along with some classics from The Sound of Music and Chitty Chitty Bang Bang. And we occasionally managed to put some of our own tunes into the mix.<br />
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But while I occasionally still put Dan Zanes on, we're mostly doing "adult" music. Johnny Cash is fairly popular ("Folsom Prison Blues" is a particular favorite), as are "Jumping Jack Flash", "Mexico", and "Slip Kid" just to name a few.<br />
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Not long ago, the older boys watched the movie "The Nightmare Before Christmas". There were two song in particular they liked, so I bought them on iTunes: "This is Halloween" and "What's This?". Collectively they refer to them as the Halloween Songs, and request them frequently. Cannon apparently is also a fan; I was surprised not long ago when I heard him shout from the back seat, "howeensong"!<br />
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Another of his favorites (actually this is the only other song he requests by name) is what the boys refer to as "Mexican" but is actually called "Mexican Radio". This is another iTunes purchase, a blast from the past indulgence of mine. I don't know about anyone else, but I loved this video and was always thrilled when it came on MTV back in the day.<br />
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<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyCEexG9xjw&feature=fvsr">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eyCEexG9xjw&feature=fvsr</a> (Sorry, but this video won't let you embed it here.)<br />
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I find it very amusing that my kids beg to hear this song over and over. But perhaps my favorite thing is when we're in some random store and Cannon will start clapping and bopping to the music. He'll say, "Like song!" And when the song ends, so does the dance.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-90259635250581937582010-06-02T06:40:00.000-07:002010-06-02T06:40:32.614-07:00DifferencesThere are certain things that Cannon does that Rowan and Kemper never did. The older boys never took off their diapers. I heard horror stories of kids ripping off a dirty diaper and smearing the contents all over their cribs, walls, and bodies. There was not a single incident of this with them. Not that there has technically been one with Cannon either, but if he's not wearing something with a snap crotch, he will definitely try to get the diaper off or loose. Which is why he almost always has restricted access.<br />
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Rowan and Kemper had baths maybe once each week. Not only was bath time a nightmare, it irritated their eczema. Cannon would live in the bath if that were an option. I can't even say the word in conversation without him chirping, "bath! bath! bath!" and running full speed into the bathroom. For that matter, I can't get into the shower without him either having a full on fit or getting in with me.<br />
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With the twins, I never had problems with them using writing implements in a problematic way. Not so lucky with Cannon. His latest activity involves pens, sometimes Sharpies, and our flat screen computer monitor. This is not a good combination, I can assure you. So far we've managed to prevent him from ruining our new kitchen cabinets, but I expect this won't remain the case for long. Kitchen table? It has pen marks.<br />
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"Put them away", you might suggest. I've done that. The problem is that his older brothers don't seem to be able to ever put anything away when they're finished with it. Which brings me to another difference.<br />
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Cannon is a cleaner-upper. He continues to amaze me with this. After I change his diaper (which I do on the floor, on a changing pad), he folds the changing pad as best he can and puts it back on the shelf where I keep it. He will then pick up the bundled dirty diaper and trot into the kitchen to throw it away. He'll dump out a plastic container of crayon pieces, draw for a while, then put them all back in the box. Then he'll put the box back in the cabinet where he got it. When we're done reading books before bed, he puts them back on the shelf. Honestly, it makes me wonder where he came from, since no one in our house puts anything back where it belongs.<br />
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The big boys, on the other hand, are complete slobs. I don't force them to clean their room; I figure, if they can't find anything, then they'll have to live with that. My rule is, if there isn't a clear and safe path to the beds, then I don't come in to kiss them goodnight. They have to settle either for a kiss blown from the doorway, or going upstairs on their own. Currently there is so much crap on their floor that I can barely get in to put away clean clothes. But I've sworn I won't clean it again. Maybe I'll strike a deal - I'll clean it up, but I can get rid of anything I deem no longer useful. I wonder if they'd go for that?<br />
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Well, here's hoping Cannon sticks with this particular attribute. It would sure keep my life marginally easier as he gets more independent.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-72700849534415485812010-05-29T04:32:00.000-07:002010-05-29T04:32:34.121-07:00Spiritual ChildKemper has been asking a variety of questions about God and Jesus lately. Or simply announcing that he "believes in God and Jesus". Now, those who know me well know that I am not much of a believer, or particularly spiritual in the traditional way. I'm hoping he will eventually feel like he can talk to our minister about much of this, but so far he hasn't seemed inclined to do so.<br />
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Yesterday we drove down to D.C. to visit the cousins. At one point while Rowan and Cannon were napping, Kemper randomly announced, "I think that God is reading a book and we're all in it." I thought this was a very interesting perspective. Even for an unbeliever like me.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-88624382377771855722010-05-26T10:47:00.000-07:002010-05-26T10:47:04.391-07:00FavoritesAll of my kids have certain things they say/said as they were starting to talk. Rowan (and then Kemper), at somewhere around age 2, would point each morning to my "gagn", or "coffee". This is how they said the word for a really, really long time. They also would say "buzzuhderr" instead of "bulldozer".<br />
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My favorite Kemperism was "tomorning", which meant "tomorrow morning". I still love that one, though he's outgrown it.<br />
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Cannon's current one is "huckaluppuh". It just makes me want to find him helicopters everywhere we go just so I can hear him say it. He has no trouble pronouncing "coffee", but does say "tomomow".Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-86194364646076759012010-05-13T05:47:00.000-07:002010-05-13T05:47:31.155-07:00New Words, Loud WordsYesterday Kemper was having trouble with his electronic microscope. The light you put the slides over was flickering, so I suggested we try new batteries and see if that solved the problem. I dug out the appropriate size, did the switch, and had the old ones sitting on the table. Cannon wandered into the room, climbed up on a chair, picked one up, and said "battery" as clear as day. I have no clue where he learned that word; it's not like we work it in to our daily conversations or anything. It's truly a mystery. <br />
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I was working on dinner the other day and Rowan came in asking for a snack. "No, because dinner will be ready in about 10 minutes." I turned around and found him standing right next to me with his hand in a big bag of dried cranberries. Again I said, "I don't want you to snack right now because dinner is almost ready." At which point he shoved a fistful of cranberries into his mouth, looking at me the entire time. Frustrated at this point, I shouted, "Put the cranberries away!!!" He immediately tossed them into the cabinet and said, "I heard you that time!", then hightailed it out of the kitchen. Sheesh. Selective hearing is going to drive me mad.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-7701238956346579942010-05-11T11:11:00.000-07:002010-05-11T11:11:54.190-07:00FlowersThis past weekend was both my birthday and mother's day. To be honest, I've kind of stopped having very high expectations for either event, based on previous years. But this year turned out to be very nice. Morgan and I had a great dinner at Tupelo, a relatively new southern restaurant in Cambridge. I got the stand mixer I've been coveting, and the kids were remarkably well-behaved.<br />
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On Saturday afternoon, Kemper and Morgan went out on an errand. Turns out Kemper had asked if they could buy me some flowers for mother's day. I didn't know this until after he presented them to me, but apparently he insisted on choosing red flowers because "red is the color of a heart". How sweet is that?Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-40984780459065461642010-05-06T04:57:00.000-07:002010-05-06T04:57:39.891-07:00WaterThis past weekend we went to Cape Cod. Morgan had a conference there starting Sunday afternoon, so we went a day early for a change of scenery. I was intending to drive back on Sunday with the kids. While looking at the news on his iPhone, Morgan learned that a water main had broken and there was a boil water order in about 30 communities in the metro Boston area, including ours. So the kids and I ended up staying put in the hotel for an extra couple of days.<br />
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I don't know if it was the enclosed space, the rainy weather, or if the planets were simply aligned in a very bad way, but I can honestly say that I was feeling like we'd have been better off having to boil all of our water at home than being trapped where we were. Cannon was actually perfectly agreeable. Rowan and Kemper, however, were pretty much horrific. Even allowing for the change of location, the lack of toys, etc., they were awful. By extension, I too was pretty awful. It was one of those times when I was convinced I am just about the worst mother on earth. It is so hard when I know my kids can be such sweet, polite, caring people yet they act so badly. You would think their parents had never taught them any manners.<br />
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This must be one of the down sides to being a stay at home parent. Breaks from the kids are few and far between, and "vacations" are anything but. Morgan at least gets a vacation from his job; I continue with my job, just in an unfamiliar place and without any of my usual tools of the trade. Yes, there's another adult to help out, but still. (And in this particular case, that extra adult was missing, as Morgan was in meetings all day.)<br />
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Hopefully I'll feel somewhat recovered before our next outing. On the up side, the boil water order was lifted the morning we drove back. So I didn't have to deal with that mess.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-69774591586319890312010-04-27T13:21:00.000-07:002010-04-27T13:21:03.659-07:00The Curse of the Not First BornPoor Cannon. He's suffering the fate of the second (or later) born. Today I took him for his first real haircut. I had trimmed his bangs a while back, but this time he got the full cut at a salon. He did great, even if he had to sit in my lap instead of on the mini carousel pony they have just for kids. And while I did remember to save some curls for posterity, I of course didn't even think to bring the camera. Mind you, I don't know how I would have managed a photo with him in my lap, but I realized after we left that I really should have captured the event. I definitely have pictures of Rowan and Kemper at <i>their</i> first haircuts.<br />
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I remember a running joke in our family was that there were no pictures of me as a baby or toddler. This isn't entirely true, but compared to the number of photos of my older brother, it certainly seemed like there weren't any of me. I swore that if I had kids, I would make sure the youngest would be equally documented.<br />
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There's one goal I can say I utterly failed to reach.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-50787534289646952482010-02-08T05:11:00.000-08:002010-02-08T05:11:39.511-08:00Yeah You Right!Well, the Saints won the Super Bowl last night. What a massive party there must be in New Orleans right now. I wonder if anyone will show up for work? I'm really not much of a sports fan, but even I watched the game. I'm really happy for the team, the city, and all the fans who have been following them since they were the Aints and fans wore paper bags over their heads at the games.<br />
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Meanwhile, the big boys turned 6 a few days ago. The party was on Saturday, and while it was essentially 3 hours of mass chaos, we all survived. I made my very first layer cake and it was only marginally lopsided. Of course, neither of the birthday boys liked it, but everyone else seemed to.<br />
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And both boys are getting much better at ice skating, even after just 5 or 6 tries. Kemper is super fast and not really afraid of falling. He's even goofed off with a hockey stick with surprising success. Rowan is still much more cautious, but getting braver. If I can figure out how to transfer video from the camera to the computer, maybe I'll post a clip.<br />
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Who Dat!Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-1411693846130818962010-01-21T16:48:00.000-08:002010-01-21T16:48:07.757-08:00WordsAs of this evening, Cannon's vocabulary consists of the following words (which he started saying in approximately this order):<br />
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ball<br />
bye bye<br />
dog<br />
bath<br />
dada<br />
mama<br />
uh oh<br />
cheese<br />
shoes<br />
banana (sort of; this is more like "buhlala", but it's pretty clear that's what he means)<br />
teeth<br />
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These are all very typical of first words. Except for the last one. That one I find rather odd. But hey, the reason he knows that word is because he loves to brush his teeth. He doesn't much like it if <i>I</i> brush them, but he'd do it all day if he could.<br />
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And speaking of teeth, Rowan lost his first one this evening. It was very exciting for all of us. For me, it really felt for the first time like my boys are growing up. Kemper was mostly jealous that he didn't have a tooth to leave out for the tooth fairy. And Rowan was just glad to have the loose tooth not bothering him anymore. I guess they really do grow up fast, don't they?Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-66341256014722022982010-01-14T05:50:00.000-08:002010-01-14T05:50:19.649-08:00Love/HateOne morning each week I have the privilege of driving carpool to school. I take this opportunity to walk the boys down to the building, check the lost and found, and chat with staff members. This is my favorite part of the week, as I get a glimpse of what they've been doing and hear stories from the staff.<br />
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The other day was one such day. Rowan typically darts off the second we enter the building, while Kemper usually hangs around me and says he wants me to stay all day. This time they both disappeared right away, leaving me in the entrance hall with Cannon as Hannah, one of the founders of the school, came in. She said, "Oh, I have to tell you the funniest thing I saw last week. Rowan was helping Kemper zip his coat, being all nice and helpful. As soon as the coat was zipped, Rowan shoved Kemper so hard he fell over, then ran off to do something else."<br />
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Yep, that pretty much sums up their relationship.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-5494514824174165092009-12-04T11:44:00.000-08:002009-12-04T11:44:41.555-08:00Bad MommyMorgan and I gave up television about 20 years ago. Didn't much miss it, either. But when I was pregnant with the twins, we realized we'd pretty much never get out to the movies again, so we bought a TV and a DVD player. Netflix wasn't far behind, and we've lived with this arrangement for the past 6 years. <br />
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Well, earlier this year when you could get a partial payment for one of those digital converter boxes, we applied even though we don't watch broadcast television. "Just in case", we reasoned. I bought the box back in April, and maybe a month ago, we finally hooked it up. Without an antenna, it didn't change anything. Still no channels, so we were still in DVD land. This lasted about a week, at which point we bought an antenna. We now get about 8 or so channels - all the networks plus several versions of PBS.<br />
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Ah, PBS. Back in the day, this meant Sesame Street and Nova. They now have 4 separate channels that show a wide range of programs. And I must say the children's shows are actually quite good (well, the ones we've been watching, anyway). <br />
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But here's the rub. I've always thought we did pretty well when it came to screen time for the kids. They maybe watched an average of about an hour a day, with many days TV free. Now they have a list of shows they enjoy on PBS. Aside from the educational value, I find myself enjoying the calming effect it has on the boys. If the TV were off, they'd be racing around the house or fighting or something. I know that TV is like a drug and can make you kind of lethargic (from personal experience). My kids spend pretty much their entire school day running around outside, so they aren't lacking in physical activity. Is it so bad that I'm letting them watch this much television? I sure feel like a terrible parent for enjoying the peace it brings.<br />
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And of course now they're asking why we don't get some of the cable channels they've seen at school. God, that's all I need - more channels with nothing to watch!Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-67892136372711457942009-12-03T13:19:00.000-08:002009-12-03T13:19:33.782-08:00Self ServeWe have one of those lazy Susan corner cabinets in our new kitchen. It's part of the bottom cabinets, not the ones over the counter, so the kids can easily get into it. Mind you, I wasn't really thinking about that aspect when we designed the kitchen, but that's what we have. In this cabinet I store cereal, crackers, pastas, rice, and a few random miscellaneous items.<br />
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Cannon recently figured out how to work the door. He still occasionally gets a finger pinched in it, but for the most part he's got it. When he's hungry, he'll waddle over and open it, spin it around, and pick out whatever it is he wants to eat. Sometimes cereal, sometimes raisins, now and then the crackers. And he always eats whatever he's picked out. It actually works out pretty well since he doesn't have more than about 4 words in his vocabulary. No guessing games! Of course, I'm beginning to wonder if this arrangement is preventing him from developing his language skills....<br />
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For a mostly non-verbal kid, he does a pretty good job of communicating. He'll point at a desired object and nod his head vigorously if he wants it. I can ask him yes/no questions, and he'll either nod or shake his head in response (and remarkably, he means what he "says" about 90% of the time). Even so, I'm ready for some more words. I get that he loves balls, and saying "bye-bye", and he's always super happy to see "dada"; but I want more. In his defense, he's trying to say "play", but "mama" would be nice.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-87107406161430982872009-10-23T18:30:00.000-07:002009-10-23T18:30:44.967-07:00Everything Tastes Better With...Ketchup, apparently.<br />
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It's such a strange thing. Cannon is a terrific eater - the kid will eat two slices of chard tart at a sitting and pretty much anything else we offer him. Kale jambalaya was a big hit. Tacos. Enchiladas. Most meats, even if a little spicy. Fruit is a huge favorite, and he'll eat some veggies. But sometimes, like most kids, he's just not in the mood. This seems particularly true when we eat out. I have found, however, that if you dip his food in ketchup, he will gobble it up. If he even sees the bottle on the table, all bets are off unless his food is dipped in it. French fries? He doesn't eat them. He merely uses them as a ketchup delivery device. He'll double and triple dip them, sucking the red goop off, until the fry begins to fall apart. Then he starts all over with another one. Just this very evening he was refusing his dinner until I broke out the sauce. I suppose it isn't such a far cry from salsa to ketchup, but I can't get terribly excited about chicken quesadillas with ketchup. <br />
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I was a ketchup eater as a kid. Not like this, I don't think. But I would eat bologna and ketchup sandwiches almost every day for lunch. I still eat it on my fries, and on most ketchup-appropriate foods. Even so, I don't understand the attraction. Rowan is also a fan, though like me he pretty much limits it to burgers, hot dogs, and fries. Kemper won't touch it with a ten foot pole. If there is one speck of red on his food (if, for example, he wants the last few bites that Rowan didn't eat), he won't eat it at all. Even if you remove the offending morsel. Once contaminated, always contaminated, I guess.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-52454053387291671472009-10-02T12:10:00.000-07:002009-10-02T12:10:23.939-07:00We All Scream...Recently we went on a weekend trip to Maine. The drive took us about 3 hours or so, and was actually pretty painless. We've discovered that Rowan and Kemper are old enough to really listen to a book on tape, and this was our second trip trying that out. It works really well.<br />
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Anyway, as we got relatively close to our destination, there was a Dairy Queen. Of course we stopped. I went in with the boys to order, while Morgan waited with the sleeping baby in the car. It took forever to make our ice cream; not sure why, but seriously we waited about 20 minutes for 2 chocolate dipped cones and 2 blizzards. Whatever.<br />
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So we load back into the car to continue our trip. Now normally I wouldn't let the kids eat ice cream in the car. I'm conflicted about allowing any food in the car, but usually give in and let them eat. But the baby was sleeping, there weren't any tables anyway, and we wanted to get there, so exceptions were made. It was a beautiful day, and we were on a local road, so Morgan put the windows down. This generally results in complaints from the back seat - Rowan doesn't like the wind blowing so much (as a toddler he'd say, "NO WINDY!!!" when it was too cold outside for him). But there was ice cream so it was pretty quiet.<br />
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For about 5 minutes. Then there was a sudden cry from the back seat: "The ice cream is all over me!" Sure enough, once we pulled over to assess the damage, we saw ice cream everywhere. It looked like someone had turned on a high-speed fan and held the ice cream cones in front of it. The wind dug little eddies out of the chocolate coating, then forced the rapidly melting ice cream out of the holes. It took me a full 15 minutes to get it clean. And the boys stood on the side of the road to finish the cones while I cleaned the mess.<br />
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It sort of reminded me of the time when I was a kid riding in the backseat of a friend's car. The windows were down, and her dad spit out the window and it came in through the back window and hit me in the face. I'm guessing it isn't quite so gross when it's ice cream, though.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-66445129261239483792009-09-22T04:36:00.000-07:002009-09-22T04:36:40.918-07:00ShoesIn a house of boys, I generally find it a challenge to get them to put shoes on. In the first week of school, Kemper "lost" his shoes at school twice, as he'd much rather run around barefoot than wear shoes. So imagine my surprise yesterday when Cannon, on three separate occasions, brought me his little shoes and extended his feet so I could put them on for him. I mean, this kid can barely walk and doesn't even <i>need</i> shoes! It's really very cute, though.Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-67267837713783025952009-09-08T12:40:00.000-07:002009-09-08T12:53:09.911-07:00Eating LocallyWe belong to both a meat and a vegetable CSA. The CSA (or Community Supported Agriculture) concept is one we've supported for a number of years. You basically share in the risk by paying up front for a season's worth of produce. That way the farmer has the money to run the farm, and the members get fresh, local stuff all season long. It usually works to our advantage - I typically feel like I got more than my money's worth. Occasionally the farmer ends up feeling really glad that the risk got spread among many people, as is the case this year with the tomatoes. We often get between 10 and 20 pounds of tomatoes a week when they're in season (plus the pick your own cherry and plum varieties), but this summer there was a blight that wiped out nearly the entire crop.<div><br /></div><div>That said, even in the less productive seasons we get tons of delicious stuff. This year is no different. I'm not always so good at using everything we get, but I've really been trying this time. I've gotten much better, I must say. Our meat CSA has a monthly pickup, and I am always careful to make menus that incorporate whatever meat we have with the veggies.</div><div><br /></div><div>Last week while eating dinner, I realized that with the exception of the butter, celery, and seasonings, the entire meal came either from our farm memberships or a local farm stand. We had Shepherd's Pie with ground lamb, corn on the cob, fresh picked green beans, and a fruit plate with cantaloupe, nectarines, apples, and fresh picked raspberries. It was very satisfying.</div>Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-81696438864675907572009-09-08T12:35:00.000-07:002009-09-08T12:40:20.985-07:00Something FishyI'm not sure exactly when it happened, but I have wrinkles. Crow's feet around the eyes, and laugh lines around my mouth. I generally don't think about them much, but I am aware of their existence.<div><br /></div><div>A while back, Kemper said to me, "Mommy, you have ****** when you smile". (The ****** indicates an indecipherable word.) Kemper frequently seems to mumble, or maybe just talk too softly, so I said, "What?" Again, he said, "You have ****** when you smile". We went back and forth like this for several exchanges, until I finally understood him. He was telling me I have gills when I smile.</div>Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22855911.post-48993034645552820132009-08-06T10:48:00.001-07:002009-08-06T10:51:48.884-07:00It<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4kpTwHdVqzKDhYs8PM_1MiWV6ar-Gs6u1nq0RN9DrYJheq-JoCllbP3f1tsbAbKz4_nxM4-l1ES97V5yvMCXIDoQ7Yhw3kRHo0kXxR2jlbgF0AoPM0DnAA2ytGbH0hRXimpKo/s1600-h/IMG_3692.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4kpTwHdVqzKDhYs8PM_1MiWV6ar-Gs6u1nq0RN9DrYJheq-JoCllbP3f1tsbAbKz4_nxM4-l1ES97V5yvMCXIDoQ7Yhw3kRHo0kXxR2jlbgF0AoPM0DnAA2ytGbH0hRXimpKo/s200/IMG_3692.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366909513133308386" /></a><br /><br />Cannon is a really cute baby. Whenever I go out in public, I am constantly being stopped so people can admire him. "Oh, he could be the Gerber baby!" is a fairly common refrain. "Those cheeks! Those legs!" is another. When Kemper and Rowan were babies, they stopped a fair amount of traffic, but that was the twin thing. People just can't help themselves around twins, it seems. I figured with one baby, it's just a baby and not any big deal. <div><br /></div><div>I would estimate that Cannon gets about twice as much attention as his brothers did. I was not expecting this. I figured if everyone else thinks he's so cute, maybe I should take him to a modeling agency and see if he could cash in on those good looks.</div><div><br /></div><div>I did some poking around, and eventually went to the baby open modeling call at a local agency that a friend uses for her kids. They gave us a brief talk about the industry in general, and the agency in particular. We saw pictures of some of the kids they represent. Then each child/parent couple went up, photos in hand, for a brief (really brief, as in 10 seconds) one-on-one with the owner. This was on a Wednesday morning, and we were all told that if they were interested, we would get a phone call by 5 p.m. on Friday.</div><div><br /></div><div>Apparently Cannon doesn't have "it", whatever "it" is. We didn't get a call. Oh well. He's still the cutest baby ever in my book.</div>Kristinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931767594273361125noreply@blogger.com0